Monday, December 31, 2018

December 2018

Happy December!  We started out the month with a girls weekend while Robert was in Houston for his annual football trip.  We had a busy weekend but I took the girls to their first movie (with me); we arrived early so we had time to check out Justice, which is now the girls new favorite hot spot.

They were each allowed to pick one thing and Mila picked a choker and Nellie picked a tiara.



Even though Mila and Kira go to different schools and don't see each other much these days, we still have a standing sleepover the first Saturday of the month.  It's nice to have it consistent on the calendar and the girls LOVE it. They truly have a special bond.  Next month we are adding the little girls (Nellie and Siena) in so the parents will each have a (free) date night every other month!



Mila is such a little social butterfly, I have to let her know that we can't go to every birthday party she gets invited to...we would go broke buying all of those birthday presents!  Still, between the two girls, it seems we had a party every weekend in December.


Mila's Kindergarten class had a Christmas performance at the church this year, which is new for Mila.  Usually it's held on the school campus but this year it was at night, at the church.  Mila had so much fun practicing for the performance and taking a field trip to the church the day before.

She was so excited to dress up in her Christmas best (thanks Nana & Papa!) and have her hair curled for the big night.


She absolutely adores her teacher, Mrs. Johnsen, and I must say, I have to agree.  She's so sweet, patient and kind, but also has so many "real" moments that help her to be relatable as well.  We are so lucky that she sends an email every. single. day. after school letting us know what they did at school that day. It's so nice to know what's going on since I only get about a 1-2 sentence recap from Mila!


So many of the girls in her preschool class moved over to the Kindergarten class so she really didn't have much of a transition at all.  I am thinking that next year, for 1st grade, will be more of one, but I don't anticipate it being a problem for her.


One of the moms in the class through a Christmas Cookie Party for all of the Kindergarten Girls right before school was out and I am so glad we went. It was nice to meet all of the other moms and meet a lot of the girls I didn't know yet. It was a great party; definitely one I would be interested  in throwing in the future!





Nellie had been talking about her birthday party for months now; she was so excited to have her "best friends" (Mila, Ariah, Kayleigh and Alyssa) over to celebrate.  Every time I asked her what kind of party she wanted, she never hesitated in asking for a Wonder Woman party. I find this hysterical because it's SO Nellie but, also, we have never watched any Superhero show, let alone Wonder Woman! She must be learning about it from school, but she's still so obsessed.




Her big present from us was to go see Disney On Ice; I wasn't sure how they would like it because we haven't seen any kind of live performance this this with them before but they both had a blast.  They loved the ice skating and the stories and, of course, the snacks.  I wasn't sure what to expect, either, but I must say, it was a great performance and we would definitely go again.


Nellie also had a Christmas performance at school but she had a little something extra.  She's been taking a dance class at school on Wednesdays and we found out shortly before the program she would be performing with her dance class! I wasn't sure what to expect, and I really didn't think she would do it, but she did amazing! It was SO adorable and she nailed it!! We are so proud of her.



We had a low key Christmas this year, exactly how I liked it.  Nana and Papa came over on Christmas Eve and we hung out for the afternoon and the had dinner together and opened presents.  We are so thankful that they spend their Christmas out here, not only to see us, but also to help with the girls when they are out for Winter Break.

Our family of four celebrated Christmas morning after Santa came and then we drove to Palmdale to see Grandma, Grandpa, Tio, Great Grandpa and Pop.


It's been a while since we have all been together and it was so great to spend time together.  We were even able to snap and amazing Christmas picture!


Mila was DYING to get an "Alexa" this year and, low and behold, Santa brought her one.  They have had endless amounts of fun talking to her, asking her for jokes, getting her to play music, listening to stories and so much more. But their favorite thing was once they figured out that Alexa will repeat whatever you say if she doesn't know what it is. For example, "Alexa, play poo poo shark"...."I'm sorry, I don't know what poo poo shark is;" and they they will fall on the floor laughing and repeat this about 245 more times.  Thanks Santa :)


Robert and I attended our fair share of parties in December as well and I know we are both glad the month is over; we're too old for this!  In addition to each of our work holiday parties, we had dinner and a cruise around Huntington Harbor with the Charlands to look at Christmas lights...


Father Pat's annual Christmas party...


A wine party...


And an early New Year's party with our best friends...


By the time New Year's Eve rolled around we were all exhausted but somehow managed to stay up for the East Coast's New Year's celebration, where we cheers'd with apple cider and called it a night at 9:30pm.


I'll leave you with this amazing video and a glimpse into what it's like to be the daughters of two police officers (or maybe what it's like to be the fathers of two daughters?!).  At least they're able to have fun with it for now!


Things we're looking forward to next month:  school starting back up again, the start of Mila's club soccer and a staycation with the Charlands in South County.

Tuesday, December 18, 2018

Nellie's 4th Birthday Interview

Birthday Interview
***Nellie is 4 years old***


1. Who is your favorite person in the whole world? Mila
2. What is your favorite color? Purple
3. What is your favorite television show? SpongeBob Squarepants
4. What is your favorite outfit? Cowboy boots
5. What sport do you like best? Gymnastics
6. What song do you love? I'm a Gummy Bear
7. What is your favorite cereal? Cotton Candy (note: we don't have cotton candy cereal!)
8. Who is your best friend? Ariah
9. What do you want to be when you grow up? Washing dishes
10. What is your favorite book? SpongeBob Squarepants
11. What are you really good at? Writing my name
12. Where do you wish you could go on vacation? To the moon to eat cheese
13. What is your best memory? In my head
14. What would you buy if you had $1,000? Cotton Candy
15. What vegetable do you hate the most? Brussel sprouts
16. If you could have a wish, what would it be? to be Supergirl
17. What is your favorite flavor of ice cream? Cotton Candy
18. Who is your biggest hero? Mila
19. What do you like to do best with your friends? Play with them
20. What do you hope you get to do before your next birthday? Open presents!

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

November 2018

Hello November!  Mila started off the month with her first "real" sleepover.  I don't really count her staying at Kira's only because Kerry started watching her when she was seven months old so it wasn't like I had to "vet" the other parents out.  Mila met Juliet at preschool and we have hung out with her parents a number of times and they are pretty great; I think we must be going on two years of hanging out when she finally slept over there.  This is unsustainable!; not sure how we're going to process this in the future without me questioning who has a creepy "uncle" living with them....how in the world did my parents do it?!

Aaaaaanyways, the girls had a great time and they said Mila was a doll.


Mila finished up her AYSO soccer season this month and had a blast with all her friends.


We had her end of the season party and she won the "Tail Without Fail" award and was so proud of her certificate and trophy. 


Her club soccer practices have been going really well too and she's developing into a better player.  She not only loves the sport but also the social aspect of being on the team.  Tryouts are next month so at that time we will need to decide if we're going to make the club commitment or not. 



Mila is doing great in school, scoring 100% on all assignments except one math test where she missed two questions and one week of sight words where she missed one word.  She's really taken to learning how to read and we've been visiting the library much more.  She loves to read every night (for homework), and even for fun, she can read very basic sentences but will follow along in the book when you are reading to her.






I'm not sure how many times I can phrase it differently, but Nellie is still a crazy ball of energy that keeps us on our toes and pulling our hair out.  If nothing else she keeps us laughing with all her crazy, performing antics.


Every season we let both of the girls pick one activity to do for about three months; we've really struggled with her trying to find something to do that SHE loves: she wants to do soccer because Mila does soccer, ballet because Ariah does ballet, monster trucks (?) because Gage doesn't monster trucks....

We always sign her up and then she's not interested in doing it (well, not monster trucks...we haven't tried that yet).  I think she would be so good in some kind of performing arts; however, preschool started offering a dance class at school (what?! An activity during school that I don't have to take her to?? YES PLEASE!) and she's doing that for now. Although I think she only likes it because she gets to wear her ballet slippers at school. And she's already asked me to cancel it, and I emailed the teacher....and then she said she wanted to keep doing it so I had to email the teacher again the next day. What did I tell you? Never a dull moment over here.


Nellie had her Trike A Thon fundraiser at school and had a great time riding with her bff, Ariah.




I spent the first part of November in St. Louis attending a work conference.  It was freezing cold but I was not sad one bit being able to see those beautiful fall colors.


They put us up at the coolest hotel, the St. Louis Union Station, and the architecture was amazing.



Robert did an amazing job holding down the fort at home.  When mom's away, dad takes the girls to get ice cream and do all kinds of other fun things :)


For the first time in many many years (10?) we went home to Kansas for Thanksgiving.  My parents and my sister each bought (their own) house this year and I wanted to check it out; plus we have been spending Christmas in California and it was just time to get home.  The plan was always for the girls and I to go home for a week; flying to Kansas just for the weekend is too hard for the girls so I was really looking for a time to go where we could spend some real time there.  Robert ended up coming out on Tuesday, after a work conference, for part of the trip (which was a huge help on the plane ride home!) and it was just the most perfect amount of time for us to be there: not to long but not too short either.  


The kids had an ABSOLUTE BLAST hanging out together. William is obsessed with Mila, Mila loves being the oldest and trying to take care of the younger two and Nellie loves turning William into her partner in crime and finally having someone to gang up on Mila with. Man, I wish we all lived closer.


We did all kinds of fun things while we were there, stuff I have been dying to take my kids to since I was old enough to want kids to take them to do things like I grew up doing...


Side note: in a surprising turn of events Nellie is some how a die hard Chiefs fan, running around with her Arrowhead-chop arm screaming "Chiefs and Chopper!" and she's fast as work trying to recruit Mila over from the Raiders...sadly, it's only a matter of time before she switches!














What would a weekend for the Rodriguez family be like if we weren't landing at LAX at 9:30am and heading to a birthday party (for Charlie!) at 3pm?  It was nice to be at home and get our taste of the cold but how can you hate coming home to this??




What we are looking forward to next month: daddy is headed to Texas for a guys trip, holiday parties holiday parties holiday parties, Nellie's 4th birthday and CHRISTMAS!