Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Placenta Encapsulation


One of the major differences between this pregnancy and my last pregnancy is the terrible mood swings I've been experiencing this time around.  The littlest thing will set me off from being in a great, happy mood and the next moment I will be so irritated and angry or sobbing and weepy.  Then a couple hours later I will be back to normal and look back and think how silly the whole episode was and how that wasn't even "me."

I had been thinking about placenta encapsulation since learning I was pregnant but now that I am so emotional and haven't even had the baby yet I made the decision that it is something I should do for myself.  What is placenta encapsulation? I thought you'd never ask.  Ashley's Green Life does a great job in explaining both the benefits and the process but here's a quick recap:

Consuming a placenta following birth has been found to:

  • help prevent postpartum depression
  • increase energy
  • help the uterus return to its pre-pregnancy state quicker
  • helps shorted postpartum bleeding time
  • increase breast milk production
  • and it's high in iron and other B vitamins
Placenta consumption has long been practiced in Traditional Chinese Medicine and was first recorded for medicinal use in 741 A.D. and has been used through the centuries to treat infertility, postpartum weakness, hormone imbalance, insufficient lactation, congenital deficiencies, and recovery from chronic illness.  According to Jodi Selander, found of PBi, in the article, "The Care and Keeping of Placentas": "The placenta, grown in her (there mother's) womb and symbiotically integrated into her system, can replenish and revitalize her, giving her the energy and resources she needs for the most important endurance challenge of her life: motherhood."  

I originally began seriously thinking about the process because of the expectation of increased milk production when taking the pills.  Since I didn't have the easiest breastfeeding experience with Mila (and I thought it would be second nature to me) I want to do everything possible to make it happen with Nellie.  I didn't suffer from postpartum depression, and only had mild baby blues, with Mila so that wasn't one of my driving concerns.  As you can see above, the health benefits to mama are numerous so why not take the risk?

Sometimes people refer to this as "eating my placenta," which makes it sound a lot more disgusting that it actually is.  While you CAN cook your placenta and eat it like steak (barf), that's not how most (normal) people do it.  The most common way (I totally made that up but it's at least the least appalling) is to dehydrate the placenta, grind it up and place it in pill form to be taken like vitamins.  When, you ask, do I plan on having the time to do this?? Well, this is quite a common practice nowadays (California has turned me into a hippy!)  and there are actual companies that you can hire to come into your home (Robert would kill me) or take your placenta to their facility to encapsulate for you; and they make it a pretty easy process too!  We just text our girl on the way to the hospital so she is prepared and then there's a contact person to text her immediately after birth (this sounds like a great job for my dad!).  She will come to the hospital within four hours to pick up my placenta and take it to her facility (her home?), completes the process and then brings the pills back to me at the hospital or my home 24-48 hours later.  Easy peasy, right?!

Some people may think I am crazy for doing this (I see you, Robert!) but I don't see what the risk is and think it's a great thing for my family. Who wouldn't want a better attitude, more milk production and increased energy?? I figure with two kids under three I will take all the help I can get!

Sunday, October 26, 2014

3D/4D Ultrasound - Nellie

Today we had our 3D/4D ultrasound; it was even more special because both my parents and both Robert's parents (and Uncle G!) were able to come as well.  If you remember (I don't blame you if you don't), last time I was a little weirded out by the 3D/4D Ultrasound because Mila looked more like an alien than she did a little baby and I didn't really like the experience at all.  This time we went a few weeks later so there was more fat on Nellie and she was more filled out.

We confirmed right off the bat that Nellie is still a girl! It was kinda funny because that "ghost" looking shadow below next to the arrow she called a HAMBURGER is actually Nellie's girl parts.  I feel like all girls should just call it "their hamburger" from now on?


My placenta is still on the front of my stomach, and coincidentally Nellie is now laying under it, so it was a little tricky to get photos but we were able to get a few.  She was so squished in there, under the placenta, and spent most of the time with her toes in her face.

In this one we are looking right at her face, eyes closed, nose sorta smooshed in (but that's just a shadow as her nose is fully formed by now).


This one is looking at her straight on again; she is sorta looking down to the left in the picture with her mouth/lips in the almost exact middle of the picture.


What was really, truly amazing to see was her opening and shutting her eyes.  She did it a couple times and we were able to get some photos of it.  This is one of my favorite photos because her eyes are slightly opened and she's got a little smile going on.


Here are both eyes open:


Here you can see Nellie's profile with her (blurry) ear on the very right side of the photo.   You can see her chubby cheek and that "thing" that she (her nose) is snuggled up against is my placenta.


The technician also confirmed that Nellie is laying across my stomach but appears to be on the way "head down;" this is fine with me as long as she's not headed "feet down!"  The tech also said that she has lots of hair already and thinks that she looks like Robert (I couldn't tell if she was being serious?!).

Mila came to the appointment with us too and was slightly interested but mostly ran around the room playing.  At the end, though, she climbed up on the bed with me and watched what the tech was doing; right before it was over she leaned over and kissed me.  And my heart melted.

To view all of the photos from Nellie's 3D/4D Ultrasound, click here.

To see the recap from Mila's 3D/4D Ultrasound, click here.

Thursday, October 23, 2014

31 Weeks - Nellie


How far along? 31 weeks...the size of a coconut! (good luck finding that at the store...this isn't Hawaii!)
Total weight gain: 15.6lbs
Maternity clothes? pretty much all I fit in lately
Stretch marks? none
Sleep: could be better, could be worse
Best moment this week:  we paid off my school loans!
Worst moment this week: uuuuugh. nanny interviewing. it's the worst.
Miss anything?  having energy at the end of the day!
Movement: lots of jerky movements lately.
Food cravings: still loving sweets
Anything making you queasy or sick? nothing really
Labor signs: Braxton hicks, heavy belly and overall achy-ness top the list.  plus i am wondering if I need to gain more weight (ha!) because my stomach feels like it's stretching out and my skin is at capacity!
Wedding rings on or off? on
Happy or Moody most of the time? so. many. mood swings.
Looking forward to: spending time with my parents while they are in town...and our 3D/4D ultrasound on Sunday!

For a look back at Week 31 with Mila, click here.

Thursday, October 16, 2014

30 Weeks - Nellie & Doctor's Appointment

Mila and her yellow crayon
How far along? 30 weeks...the size of a large cabbage!
Total weight gain: 15.4lbs....I can't stop gaining weight (and eating Oreos....I'm sure the two are definitely not correlated)
Maternity clothes? yep
Stretch marks? none
Sleep: I've found the sweet spot: curled up in a tiny fetal position ball; but between the room it takes me for that plus my Snoogle, it doesn't leave much room for Robert...sorry honey!
Best moment this week:  the Royals are headed to the World Series!
Worst moment this week: we found out today the nanny that we loved and wanted to hire has another offer on the table.  say good prayers for us!
Miss anything?  champagne to toast the Royals!
Movement: lots of movement at night, which makes that one of my favorite times of day
Food cravings: nothing too strong but still eating so many sweets
Anything making you queasy or sick? nothing really
Labor signs: my vagina bones (technical term) are starting to hurt :-/
Wedding rings on or off? on
Happy or Moody most of the time? happy!!! it was a good week :)
Looking forward to: so many things!  Finally time to paint the nursery, my parents are coming this week and the World Series!

For a look back at Week 30 with Mila, click here.

I had another doctor's appointment today, this time with the nurse practitioner.  After making me wait 45min for a 12min appointment (grrrr), she confirmed that everything looks great and the baby is measuring at 30 weeks exactly.  We listened to the heartbeat, which she said was very strong, and I even found out that the placenta has a heartbeat of its own (mine). Strange!

I also asked how to determine if the baby was breech or not.  She said that since they don't do routine ultrasounds in the third trimester there's no REAL way to tell until you get to the hospital.  I didn't really like that answer so I will be checking during my 3D/4D ultra sound next week.

Upcoming Appointments
11/7 at 3:45pm
11/20 at 4pm
11.28 at 11am

Thursday, October 9, 2014

29 Weeks - Nellie

Mila was on strike this week

How far along? 29 weeks...the size of a butternut squash!
Total weight gain: 13.4lbs
Maternity clothes? yep....and I am ready for leggings, boots and sweaters.  C'mon California heat wave!
Stretch marks? none
Sleep: it's gotten horrible!  i just can't seem to get comfortable :( and last night I woke up so many times...thinking about soup.  what?!
Best moment this week:  I was unexpectedly off work Tuesday and Wednesday mornings this week and I really loved spending that extra time with Mila
Worst moment this week: I had to get my Tdap (whooping cough) shot and (first ever in my life) flu vaccine on Tuesday.  Man, that Tdap shot rocked my world! My arm has been sore for two days!
Miss anything?  tuna!
Movement: it really stinks having the placenta on the front (especially since this is my last pregnancy) because I feel like I am missing out on lots of kicks.  But it does make me stop and really appreciate the kicks when they do happen
Food cravings: soup, maybe?
Anything making you queasy or sick? nothing really
Labor signs: let's be honest, I didn't even know I was in labor last time with Mila.  That being said, I think I felt a Braxton Hicks contraction this week (but then again, it totally could've been Nellie kicking outward)
Wedding rings on or off? on
Happy or Moody most of the time? mostly happy....but watch out for my mood swings! whew!
Looking forward to: nesting! I only have two weekends left until Robert paints the nursery and I am finding myself getting so focused on getting the nursery ready. So excited about that!

For a look back at Week 29 with Mila, click here.

Dear Nellie,

Mama had a rough week last week! I was ready to throw in the towel last Wednesday night (whatever that means!) and I felt like everything was just too much; I worried I was having an anxiety attack.  I'm happy to say that it was definitely just my hormones and I have been feeling much better since then. I know that things will be so different with two little ones around our house but I am so excited to meet you.  I am trying to take one day at a time and I really cherish the moments when I am laying in bed (not sleeping) and I can feel you moving around in there. I wonder what you will look like and hope that you will be laid back like Daddy and Mila and I can't wait to snuggle you in my arms.

Love you so much already.

Love,
Mommy

Thursday, October 2, 2014

28 Weeks - Nellie


How far along? 28 weeks...the size of an eggplant (this measurement I actually believe!)!
Total weight gain: 11lbs
Maternity clothes? yep. i've fully converted.
Stretch marks? none
Sleep: pretty good but I think it's because I am so exhausted I just pass out
Best moment this week:  spending Sunday with Robert and Mila, celebrating Robert's birthday
Worst moment this week: Grandma Foley is now in the hospital :(  And we've all been feeling pretty sick; among other things. The last two weeks have been brutal.
Miss anything?  feeling like myself, both physically and emotionally
Movement: She's a quick little sucker.  I will feel her kick on opposite ends of my stomach very close together!
Food cravings: nothing really that I HAVE to have (but I will eat all of your brownies if they are around)
Anything making you queasy or sick? not really but I did give chicken a once over today (and didn't eat it)
Labor signs: They're not labor signs but Nellie is really stickin' it to me this week. I've been having horrible headaches, one day she positioned herself up under my rib cage (which was INTENSELY painful), and now I have an uncomfortable head cold that has me feeling like my head is underwater
Belly button in or out? in between in and out. if that makes sense.
Wedding rings on or off? on
Happy or Moody most of the time? moody :(
Looking forward to: Sunday, when I don't have any plans to do anything.

For a look back at Week 28 with Mila, click here. (I miss that blue dress! Sadly it had a hole in it though. Boo.)

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

2 Year Doctor Appointment - Mila

Yesterday we had Mila's 2 year doctor's appointment and it went great!  Usually she gets measured and weighed on the baby scale but this time she was asked to stand on the regular scale and to put her feet against the wall for her height. It was crazy to me!  My little girl is definitely growing up!

Mila measured 32 3/4in tall and weighed 28.2lbs.  The doctor did confirm that Mila is still short (in the 15th percentile) and chubby (in the 80s percentile); this is putting her BMI (Body Mass Index) at 89%!  But Dr. Brouwer said she's not worried because we feel Mila healthy, not a lot of junk food, juice or milk so she expects her to start leaning out.

She said that we're doing everything great and to keep it up!  She thinks Mila's development is right on track and is happy to see that she is starting preschool, but in the spring so hopefully she will miss out on some of the "cold season."

Mila only had to have one shot (the flu shot) and it was in her arm this time.  She only cried for a minute, until she got the Elmo bandaid, which she promptly took off her arm and put on her chest like a sticker!